Friday, April 16, 2010

Relationships

Relationships can either be the greatest things ever or the worst thing ever. I personal have had both. Why is it men and woman are so different, but need each other so much. I don't care how much someone tells you they don't need the other, there full of it. I mean everybody wants somebody to love or to love them. Yet we take our partners for grant much to often. I think that is why people end in divorce so often.

People don't take relationships serious anymore. I mean to most people anymore, a marriage license is just a piece of paper. A marriage license is really a contract. Yes it is contract, to love, honor, and obey. I know some people don't like the last one, but it is true. The thing people don't understand is that to obey, is to obey your heart. You can read in to it however you want, but to me if you can't obey your vows then you are just going to be a statistic.

I also think that people watch to much TV!!! They expect love and relationships to work like all these love stories they watch on TV. Well guess what? They don't, it takes work from both side of the partnership. You have to give to receive. I mean if you don't give something into the relationship then you won't receive anything from the relationship. Thus ending the relationship and years of therapy!! Just kidding, well maybe for some people.

Just remember if you have someone or even if you don't right now, remember to tell them what they mean to you. Love them everyday like it was the first day, because like I said in a previous blog life sometimes happens. You just never know what tomorrow holds, and tomorrow might be too late.

1 comment:

  1. I do agree with most of your statements. The media has a huge impact on how we view certain things in life and is very tainted on the reality of love. Truth is love is not what you view for the most part, it can be very rewarding, but rarely is an emotion, it is a committment. With the unrealistic view on romance we get a distorted perception of what our significant other should be like then we are set up for disappointment. It kinda sucks

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